Girl, Alternative

Picture it, a high school classroom in 2007, there’s a girl sitting near the back of the class ear buds in her ears and nose deep in a book. Now picture another girl sitting next to the first girl reaching over and pulling out one of her ear buds.

“What are you listening to?” she asks. The ear bud is not even completely in her hear before she pulls it away. With a very shocked and confused look on her face she stares at the girl.

“What is that?” she she says.

She wasn’t expecting the heavy guitar riffs she’d heard coming out the ear bud.

The girl snatches her ear bud back and says.”A rock band I like.”

She continues to stare with that surprised look.  

You might wonder why was she looking at the girl with such surprise? Well the girl listening to the music was black and so was the other girl. Some of you might say so what she’s black and she listens to rock music? Well I’m hear to tell you that blacks listening to rock isn’t really a common thing. I still hear things like “That’s white people music.” or “Do you think your white?” Just because a majority of rock music are white artists doesn’t mean I shouldn’t listen to it. And that doesn’t make it a “white music”music is universal, it’s for everybody. I love all kinds of music, and I do mean all kinds. From country to techno and everything in between. Growing up it seemed I never fit into the box of the typical black female. I wasn’t listening to the music they were listening too, going to see the movies they were seeing, or even dressing like they were. While they were out partying I was in the house watching old black and white movies on TCM. I shared that story to say that society is always going to try to put you into a box. Okay you’re a black female of a certain age that means you should like hip hop and acrylic nails. Or you’re a white male from the south you should be interested in country music and hunting. But we are more than the stereotypes that the world pushes on us. I will never be what the world expects me to be, and I’m okay with that. It took me awhile to get to there, but I can really say I love being me.

Just for fun here is the actual song I was listening to when that girl pulled that ear bud from my ear.

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Happy New Year!!!

PhotoGrid_blogToday is the first day of 2015, and just like every year, 2014 seems to have flown by. It was a good year mostly. There was some trouble at the beginning but overall it was amazing.

Here are some of my wins of my 2014

I probably forgetting some stuff but nonetheless I can honestly say this was my best year so far. I did more new things this year than ever before. I also realized this year how many people care about me. The love I received on my birthday was almost overwhelming. Not only do I have my immediate family but I have a large circle of friends and coworkers who’ve become my extended family.


I don’t usually make New Years resolutions but this year I am. My only resolution will be to write more. Hence this blog. I want to use more of my time for my passion. I don’t know exactly what 2015 will hold but I know with God above me and my loved ones beside me it will be everything I want and more.

My First Post

So I have a blog. I got this blog completely on accident. The video ministry I’m apart of Light the Fuel started a blog and in order to be a contributor I had to have my own account. So here I am. Truth be told I have bounced around the idea of having a blog in my head for about a year now. I fancy myself a writer and every writer should have a blog right?  But then I thought, what the heck would I write about? I also thought who the heck would read it? I don’t particularly live a super exciting life, I’m a mostly normal girl. I live, I love, I laugh. I’m also a pretty private person, anybody who knows me would say there’s a long process in getting to know me. So how I am I going to have a blog? Bloggers put their lives on display. Some reveal more than others but still they’re thrusting themselves into the public eye. That doesn’t sit well with me. But having a project all my own is exciting. I can control what I post when I post it and how personal I want to get. I can have fun with some photography. There’s a lot of opportunities to get creative. Now all I have to do is accept the idea of letting people in my world. This might be a little tough.

Here’s the link to the Light the Fuel’s Facebook page!

https://www.facebook.com/lightthefuel1?ref=hl